The Other Other Side

Civilians

there's something that my older brother once said

about going to a convenience store after a difficult film shoot

which is most of them, who's ever heard of an easy movie set

all of the producers, and grips, and assorted crew members

the sound guys, like my brother

all with their own role, their own duty

like a chaotic USS Enterprise, fueled by Red Bull and disposable nicotine vapes

he said that, after everything he'd been through

that it felt utterly bizarre to be among civilians again

that's the word he used

civilians


there was that one time, in a Taco Bell

when my mother was talking about losing my younger brother

the one I was just a bit too young to remember much about today

apart from stories from my family

she said that, after the funeral, it felt utterly unfair that the rest of the world kept on turning


when I was working at Burger King

not Taco Bell, unfortunately

would've made for a better parallel

we lost a man, a manager of mine

he used to tell me I wasn't fast enough

gotta work on that speed

he spent a lot of his shift on his phone

I spent a lot of my shift on my phone

one night, on one of those shifts I spent on my phone, I walked outside and saw the sign that I hadn't noticed coming in it said, "YOU WILL BE MISSED ERIC"

I asked the manager who was closing with me that night if he had gotten a job somewhere else

she rolled her eyes and said that he had passed

I walked home, alone

holding my uncomfortable restaurant shoes in my hand


I don't know if I believe in civilians

I think we're all fighting our own private wars

and if you say the right thing,

mention the right regiment,

or just have the right look in your eyes,

a comrade in arms will know